tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6642469491548710234.post3540565611926115735..comments2020-08-10T17:37:08.846-04:00Comments on Tifrosh Min Hatzibur: Rape manualAztecQueen2000http://www.blogger.com/profile/09371826731550331938noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6642469491548710234.post-61128613441300947592013-06-27T03:11:46.249-04:002013-06-27T03:11:46.249-04:00Well, I am a gyoress whose parents are deceased. A...Well, I am a gyoress whose parents are deceased. Am I a virgin? No and I won't deny that fact. I tell my non Jewish friends about this and I feel so embarrassed as they are like, Whaaaaa I thought religious men of any religion are supposed to be better men? They keep asking me why I converted to a religion where the men treat me like prostitutes. The ravs might sit in Yeshiva talking smack about non FFB women but it works both ways, the non Jews and non frum think horribly about Orthodox Jews. People always tell me how the Orthodox men are in the strip clubs. They tell me Friday night. I say, "no no no, they wouldn't break Shabbos but they will put dollar bills into the 'Shiksa' after Shabbos. It's Saturday that you see them."<br /><br />I tell my rabbi about how some of these men act and he always says, "that's disgusting!" but he and his wife have tried to trick me into bad set ups so many times.... I'm so sick of the way Jews think they are so much smarter than me as a gyoress. I am putting you all on notice, whatever you try to pull on me, is not going to work because I'm not stupid, it's just going to piss me off.Michaltastikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358698308334285154noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6642469491548710234.post-61993095543432344392013-06-27T02:59:08.455-04:002013-06-27T02:59:08.455-04:00Yes, you are naive.Yes, you are naive.Michaltastikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358698308334285154noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6642469491548710234.post-79008938001784751912013-06-27T00:43:29.013-04:002013-06-27T00:43:29.013-04:00Yes. The existence of this book needs to be estab...Yes. The existence of this book needs to be established. Light is the perfect disinfectant. Without it, attitudes like these (which exist among both the secular and the fundamentalist worlds, make no mistake) are allowed to take hold and fester.AztecQueen2000https://www.blogger.com/profile/09371826731550331938noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6642469491548710234.post-19457062938521212022013-06-26T19:46:29.119-04:002013-06-26T19:46:29.119-04:00The book is disgusting. Frum guys don't know w...The book is disgusting. Frum guys don't know what normal sex, and here you are exposing the frum community to a book about abnormal sex (rape)! Why??? Do we need to hear this crap?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6642469491548710234.post-76744884596034806402013-06-26T16:09:32.322-04:002013-06-26T16:09:32.322-04:00Michaltaskik is correct. A lot of guys, especially...Michaltaskik is correct. A lot of guys, especially older ones (i.e. 30s/40s and up) behave in this manner. Worse they target non-FFB girls, who may or may not have had a 'past' (i.e. some girls became frum early in life or just didn't do certain things). Not that having a prior life or even a mistake in the recent past entitles any man to benefits.<br /><br />Doesn't matter how modest the girl dresses or if they are rather shy, the girl is somehow at fault. I've had shadchans yell at me that it's lashon hora to report such unsavory behavior. Even my own rav once told me the guy how I was 'misunderstanding the guy made a mistake and is sorry.' This guy happened to be related to a well known rav (well so are 100s of other folks). <br /><br />And yes, these are the men that whine all over the internet how nice guys can't find a nice Jewish girl to settle down.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6642469491548710234.post-14062944574090925412013-06-24T08:12:35.697-04:002013-06-24T08:12:35.697-04:00Yes, frumgeek, you are naive.
Some guys, all they...Yes, frumgeek, you are naive.<br /><br />Some guys, all they want to do is f***.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6642469491548710234.post-82485691819450648592013-06-24T07:59:39.368-04:002013-06-24T07:59:39.368-04:00I've never heard of such a thing! Did no one t...I've never heard of such a thing! Did no one teach these kids how to be a Mensch? And what 'from' boy engages in premarital sex!?! (I've heard of such things on the upper west side, but not elsewhere, and my opinion of the upper west side is quite low.) Even guys who aren't shomer, isn't it the polite thing to assume the girl is and not touch her!? I can't believe what you wrote is a common thing! I've never heard of such a thing! Am I that nieve? FrumGeekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13698026647411592329noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6642469491548710234.post-60644827454307061542013-06-24T02:14:33.708-04:002013-06-24T02:14:33.708-04:00Are you a guy? Umm, I've had guys going up or ...Are you a guy? Umm, I've had guys going up or trying to go up my skirt in kosher restaurants. I've had the guys I've been set up with by FFBs act like this, including guys who take the conversation sexual on the phone before I've ever met them. I usually don't meet them. I used to meet them and walk out on the date. Now I'm just like, "why should I go if I'm just going to regret it?" <br /><br />The unfortunate truth is that too many women ply themselves with alcohol and put up with this crap. They complain to their friends or whatever. How many times I've asked female friends why they put up with crap from guys, they giggle like bimbos and say they don't know. The handful of times I make a mistake, I OWN it. Why did I let him get away with that? because my female friends refuse to act like friends and I'm lonely and I own my mistakes..... <br /><br />The frum community is actually pretty bad when it comes to this stuff. The last guy someone set me up with, probably about a year ago, he tells me on the phone, "who do you live with?" and then because I live alone, "so I can come over and F*** you?" Me: "No, you can't" Him: "why not? You just said you live alone" Me: not responding but getting pissed off. I called the matchmaker the next day and she argued with me that she thought his behavior was ok. We had never met, never exchanged pictures. I stopped dating after that. I'm so sick of pushy arrogant men who don't respect me and all play the same head games that I see through. <br /><br />Oh and make no mistake, these are the same men who whine online that they are nice and that nice guys can't get a woman.Michaltastikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358698308334285154noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6642469491548710234.post-25041102317375746722013-06-23T20:56:03.513-04:002013-06-23T20:56:03.513-04:00At least in the frum (presumably shomer negiah) wo...At least in the frum (presumably shomer negiah) world, you don't really have to worry about this.FrumGeekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13698026647411592329noreply@blogger.com