tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6642469491548710234.post4634249978180403574..comments2020-08-10T17:37:08.846-04:00Comments on Tifrosh Min Hatzibur: Bureaucratic fumbilngAztecQueen2000http://www.blogger.com/profile/09371826731550331938noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6642469491548710234.post-70135856439819251872013-06-27T17:10:11.055-04:002013-06-27T17:10:11.055-04:00Do you honestly think that the vast majority of pe...Do you honestly think that the vast majority of people who pursue divorces do so BEFORE the point of exhaustion? Even in communities where divorce is considered relatively acceptable and carries minimal social risk, I think that is a ridiculous, ignorant, and judgmental myth. I don't know one single person who's gotten a divorce for kicks and giggles. Why would anyone do that? It is a last resort and the last thing anyone going through it needs is uninformed, holier-than-thou suggestions from strangers.Lydiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10771405085138024959noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6642469491548710234.post-34820414159831730032013-06-27T00:46:54.456-04:002013-06-27T00:46:54.456-04:00You clearly missed the references to emotional abu...You clearly missed the references to emotional abuse suffered. Being locked in a room with my husband and a rubber bat would be very traumatizing. I would be coerced into staying out of fear.AztecQueen2000https://www.blogger.com/profile/09371826731550331938noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6642469491548710234.post-70732187478135385152013-06-27T00:45:41.628-04:002013-06-27T00:45:41.628-04:00You clearly have no understanding of homeschooling...You clearly have no understanding of homeschooling and do not read this blog. And, yes, I know my pediatrician's name, and could tell you my children's last visit. It was yesterday, for their annual camp physicals/well child visits.AztecQueen2000https://www.blogger.com/profile/09371826731550331938noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6642469491548710234.post-30174568701683271962013-06-26T19:42:02.507-04:002013-06-26T19:42:02.507-04:00What a waste of time and, probably, money!
I thi...What a waste of time and, probably, money!<br /> I think that when 2 people first decide to get a divorce, they should be locked in a padded room together--no lawyers, no judges--with soft, mushy bats and be allowed to slug it out. They can decide what works best--verbal assaults or bats. If they come to the point of exhaustion and still can't stand each other, then the lawyers can be allowed into the room.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6642469491548710234.post-47379391700107040892013-06-26T19:37:18.518-04:002013-06-26T19:37:18.518-04:00Tesyaa, I don't know if your questions apply i...Tesyaa, I don't know if your questions apply in this case.<br /><br />The children are home schooled in a community that does not approve of home schooling, and the mother has no supportive connections with her community. What friends could these children have?<br /><br />The father probably knows all of their preferred activities--because they're always home!<br /><br />Maybe you can get him on the pediatrician's name and the date of their last visit. However, most of the young mothers I know would be at a loss to remember the pediatrician's name. And if they remember every visit, they're not paying enough attention to their children's current needs!<br /><br />I'm sure if you and the Aztec Queen put your heads together, however, you'll come up with some way of proving that the Aztec King is not Father of the Year.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6642469491548710234.post-4243076059814910832013-06-12T08:54:18.858-04:002013-06-12T08:54:18.858-04:00You know what a divorce is? It's when two peo...You know what a divorce is? It's when two people decide they can't live with each other and therefore choose to give all their money to their lawyers.<br />It's a shame the system is so convoluted and set up to be adversarial.Mighty Garnel Ironhearthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09571194550300367249noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6642469491548710234.post-36222871596054816452013-06-10T13:52:04.055-04:002013-06-10T13:52:04.055-04:00You don't know me but I've stumbled across...You don't know me but I've stumbled across your blog every so often. Just want to say I'm sorry you are dealing with this and glad you had the strength and courage to leave. Hope everything works out well for you quickly.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6642469491548710234.post-2168383696575504732013-06-09T19:27:58.897-04:002013-06-09T19:27:58.897-04:00A friend who is going through a similar (but not t...A friend who is going through a similar (but not the same) thing told me it's very easy to prove her spouse is not Father of the Year. Does he know their pediatrician's name? When was their last visit? Friends' names? Preferred activities? You name it - he doesn't know it.tesyaanoreply@blogger.com